Eppy BirthDay To Me

18 March...hari lahir aku yg ke 3X...hee dah makin tua le.Tahun ni aku potong cake sampai 3 kali, mengalahkan budak2. he..he..he.



Cake pertama ni celebrate masa percutian di Desaru JB pada 08 March lepas, kira ni advance birthday punya cake lah. Kebetulan untuk family Allahyarham Haji Mohd Kassim (atuk aku) ada 3 org yg besdaynya jatuh pd bulan ini...iaitu pakciku@Sharif, aku & also cousinku@Basirah yg tengah study kat UPM....yang bestnya tarikh2 kelahiran kami agak menarik. Seorang 08, aku 18 dan seorang lagi 28....08 , 18 & 28

Cake ke2 ni pula hubby aku beli semalam. Ada cerita menarik disebalik cake ini. Semalam after work hubby aku singgah di kedai cake n buy, then sampai dirumah dia memaklumkan padaku tepat jam 12, 18 March dia nak aku memotong cake celebrate bersama le gituuu. So tunggu punya tunggu detik 12.00...kami tertidur. Sedar-sedar dah 5.30 pagi. Langsung tak jadi nak memotongnya. So must wait after go back home today. Anyway ...Thanx Dear for Nice Cake!

Cake ke3 ni pula baru aku potong sebentar tadi di office. Office aku nie every month ada sambutan hari lahir. Kebetulan bulan ni ada 3 staff yg menyambut besday. Aku, Kak Ida 15/3 & Yus 17/3.

So dikesempatan ini aku nak wish semualah yg celebrate BESDAY pd bulan MARCH..
Happy Birthday ...May all your dreams and wishes come true!

To Dear..

Dear,
I'm so happy to have U in my life. I want U to know that U hold a very special place in my heart. All the things that U have done for me in such a thoughtful way are very much appreciated. Thank You... For Everything.
Love U always...

1st Anniversary

15 March genap setahun usia perkahwinanku. Tepat jam 12 mlm aku n hubby memotong cake anniversary (teringat kenangan hari perkahwinan semasa acara mkn beradap...cut cake bersama).Sunday evening pula we all gi celebrate di Bombay Palace di Jalan Ampang. Nice jugak tempat ni..Decornya ala2 bollywood gitu...foodnya also nice.



Doaku moga ikatan ini sentiasa ceria, bahagia & kekal selamanya... Amin!

Cuti-Cuti Malaysia - Desaru Johor

Friday lepas 06 Mac aku & hubby balik ke rumah parents aku di selatan tanah air sempena cuti Maulidur Rasul yg jatuh pada hari isnin. Saturday we all ke Desaru, Kota Tinggi. Bermalam disana 1 Nite di Rumah Peranginan TNB. Seronok juga sesekali berkumpul ramai2 mcm nie pergi bercuti. 5 kete kesemuanya yg pergi. Pada mlmnya we all buat party BBQ. Mcm2 le yg di panggang...ada ayam,ikan,udang n jugak we all bakar otak2. Sunday morning pulak tibalah acara kemuncak iaitu terjun laut...apa lagi jakun aje kesemuanya mcm tak pernah jumpa air , he..he.. he...
Cantik dan menarik jugak le tempat ini. Sesuai lah jika hendak jadikan destinasi percutian. Yang bestnya Desaru ni tak ramai pengunjung , tak mcm PD yg penuh sesak dgn manusia lagi2 time public holiday.

A Touching Story

"Marriage"
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand
and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate
quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't
know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was
thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't
seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I
avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the
chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we
didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find
out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a
satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to a lovely girl called
Dew. I didn't love her anymore.

I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce
agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30%
stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces.
The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a
stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but
I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had
expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The
idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be
firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing
something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to
sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful
day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table
writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want
anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She
requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a
life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a
month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken
marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she
asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our
wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I
carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I
thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together
bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife s
divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No
matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said
scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention
was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day,
we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding
mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the
bedroom to the Sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten
meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly;
don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus
to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on
my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that
I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realised
she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her
hair was greying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a
minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I
lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the
woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was
growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to
carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made
me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on
quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she
sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that
she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more
easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and
bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her
head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry
mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become
an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come
closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was
afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in
my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the
hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held
her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much
lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a
step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I
hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office
jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid
any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs, Dew
opened the door and I said to her, Sorry Dew, I do not want the
divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished and then touched my
forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my
head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life as boring
probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not
because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realise that since
I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold
her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave
me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.

I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I
ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what
to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every
morning until death do us apart.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a
relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in
the bank, blah, blah, blah. These create an environment conducive for
happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be
your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that
build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Kerala, India

Seronok percutian ku di KERALA pada Julai lepas. Thanx Dear kerana membawaku Honeymoon di sana. Banyak tempat-tempat menarik yg telah dilawati. Pengalaman yg paling menarik ialah ketika menaiki n bermalam di Boathouse kerana pengalaman sebegini tidak ada di sini.

Kerala offers a unique mini - canvas to the traveller; the backwaters, which consist of a complex network of lagoons, lakes & canals. Life on the backwaters is entirely different; water being the key to everything. There are no roads here, only waterways. On the banks one can see lush green rice fields spreading away into the distance and coconut groves with the occasional temple or church. The backwaters are best experienced while slowly punting down the labyrinth of canals. This is perhaps the only region in the world where farming is done 1.5-2 metres below sea level! It is truly an experience will savour for a long time.

“Kerala is one of the 50 MUST SEE destinations of a life time!” - the NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC TRAVELER

kpd kengkawan yg meminta aku email foto2 di Kerala , aku mohon maaf kerana tidak dapat tunaikan permintaan kalian. Walaubagaimanapun disini aku sertakan beberapa kpg utk tatapan.Jika hendak tgk foto silalah buat temujanji dgn aku...he he he (Gambar yg dirakam terlalu banyak ada dlm 500 keping , so korang fikir le mcm mana le aku nak email. If setakat nak email sekeping dua memang tak puas le korang nak tgk).

My TWIN Niece

Nur Sarah Qashrina & Nur Sarah Qistina Binti Mohd Nasir.
My Brother twin baby... Cute Kan? Darah Mix Mamak+Malay.
03 April nie genap lah setahun usia mereka.
Advance Happy Birthday from Aunty.....

Anniversary...Around The Corner

Masa berlalu begitu pantas, 15 March ini genaplah anniversary aku yg pertama. Rasa mcm baru lagi aku naik pelamin....tup ..tup dah setahun....

New Home!

Alhamdulilah.... aku memiliki rumah sendiri. Macam tak percaya ajer bila baca nama yang tertera di smp. Thanx Dear ! Majlis House warming telah diadakan pada 27 December 2008. Sorry le kepada kengkawan yg tak sempat aku undang. Anyway if u all nak dtg ...rumah aku sentiasa terbuka untuk kalian.

My Blog...

Teringin pulak untuk memiliki blog sendiri. Dok asyik baca blog kengkawan2 ajer selama nie. Alhamdulilah akhirnya terhasil lah jugak blog yg tak sebeberapa ini. Baru nak berjinak2 le katakan!